I used to know, but I don't anymore.
Fifteen years ago I could predict exactly the type of person I would develop a crush on. I knew every last characteristic. That person would be:
- Male

- Healthy & Fit
- Aged 48-60
- Bald
- Highly Intelligent/Academic
- Refined Manners and Tastes
Think Patrick Stewart. Yeppers, that was the man for me. Every time a man like that crossed my path, I'd melt into a gooey puddle of crush-juice.
Ten years ago, I noticed a shift in my crushes. Bald men stopped turning my head. A different type of person started attracting my attention:
- Female

- Artsy/Quirky
- Aged 18-30
- Small in Stature
- Eclectic Tastes
- Dark Hair
My rockabilly babe, pin-up model Bernie Dexter, should give you some idea of the kind of girl I'm talking about.
Now...I just don't know anymore! I can't predict when a crush will come along and what she'll look like or act like. It's like there are absolutely no commonalities anymore, except that I haven't had a crush on a dude in a good long time (except Professor Snape...does he count?).
What is my "crush type"? I've been mulling this over for a couple days now and...I've got nothing!
I mean, I think about my girlfriend of two+ years, and she doesn't fit into any known category. Sweet's:

- MTF Transsexual
- Tall
- Redhead
- "Curvy"
- Generous
- Wise Woman
- Geeky/Trekkie
- Tells Really Bad Jokes
Mind you, I don't remember ever really having a crush on Sweet. I knew there was something special about her, and I fell in love. Or maybe I did have a crush on her...and maybe I still do. I certainly do find myself fantasizing about kissing her while I'm dozing on the subway. I still think about her all the time. Every time I'm in a store, I can't resist buying her a present, even if it's just a bottle of iced tea.
But that doesn't help me in establishing my crush type. When I think about the women I've crushed on over the past five years, I see no similarities. Maybe we only see the similarities in retrospect. Maybe five years from now, it'll all be clear.
What about you? Are there certain physical qualities you know you'll be attracted to in any given person? Or do the physical qualities have to accompany personality qualities? Can you clearly identify the kind of person you'll develop a crush on?
What's your crush type?
Bright Blessings,
Giselle Renarde
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